So I have a girlfriend and I wonder what it all means .... we're not deep in the relationship yet having only met a couple months ago, there were a couple rocky patches we've gone through but nothing real major. I'm wondering if I'm being too clingy but  it irritates me that I don't see her more 'cause it's been just over a week since I saw her last, although I have talked to her on occasion between then and now. I am trying to be understanding of her needs and space but am I being vain in thinking that she should be spending more time with me and me wanting her to return my calls in a more timely fashion. I've never been the controlling type and do not want to appear as being so, so what am I to do? I'd feel stupid talking to her about it and mos def don't want her to get the impression that I am that insecure so I am just playing it out hopefully as events progress it will turn out for the better.